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Hello I'm new here and couldn't help noticing the same thing as you with people asking for money. Words can't describe how true your words were about thinking out of the box, and that there's more than one way to solve your problems. I wish you the best and hope your doing well.

rightfight, I don't know if you have found what you need yet. I'm sorry I have no ideas to offer as I am in a similar situation. I just wanted to say that I feel your pain and will say a prayer for you and your children.

At this point in my life every thing seems mixed up and up side down. I'm in a court battle with my ex over our 15 month old son. I haven't seen my baby in six months. I was stupid and nieve enough to give him custody of the baby when he was born. I believed him when he said it would makes things easier. We were already separated when the baby was born. Our agreement was to co-parent with the father's home at his mom and dad's the primary residence. With in days of us going to the court house to sign the papers his whole personality flipped. When I contacted the courts they said there was nothing that could be done except for me to take him to court over it. I still wasn't ready to beleive the father of my only child who I had loved for ten years was capable of taking our child away from me. For nine long months I endured the disrespect and inhumanity of him and his mother just to get to see my son. All the while hoping and praying he'd realize what he was doing not to me, but our son was wrong and he'd change. Eventually it came to light his Mother was the mastermind behind my torment. It was no secret through our ten year relationship that she HATED me. On more than one occasion she made it clear that she felt I was not good enough to be minggling with her family because mine didn't have the money hers did. Even with knowing her feelings I couldn't and still can't understand how that is a good enough reason to tear apart a mother and child. What's even worse that my ex allows her to carry on this way. It all boils down to him getting what he wants. As long as he doesn't allow me around the baby without her being there he can live there rent and bill free with his new girlfriend and her three year old daughter. I swear I feel like my whole life has turned into a bad lifetime movie. It's been six months and the court process is still slowly moving on. I have been in front of the Jugde for ten minutes twice since October and I'm still in the same boat as I was then. At the last hearing it was trial for my visitation. As my ex also hit ME with child support I didn't have the money to get a lawyer. With the help of my money no doubt he did have one. And to be honest I didn't feel that I even needed one. It seems pretty cut and dry to me, but the judge couldn't come up with a decision on the bench. He told us that he'd have the verdict in the mail as soon as possible. What I got in the mail was not a verdict but a letter from a loca; lawyer stating that she had been apointed my son's Guardian de Litem and she would be conducting a full investigation to give the court her opinion of what is in the best interest of the child. WHAT? How is it possibly in my son's best interest to be keep away from a good loving mother who wants and misses him? While I do my best not to be, I feel myself becoming more and more jaded. I have almost no family both my parents are dead. When my ex and I got together, I had one good friend. Also I was young and happily made all his friends mine to. After the break up even though I was friends with them for ten years they felt their loyalties lied with him. I would be very grateful for any feed back from any one with a kind word or experience with something like this.